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A funny, sarcastic Mom writes about trying for joy while losing her Mom to Alzheimer's. Patti's writing is real, silly and sad, just like dementia is.

Big questions about life, memory and covering the toilet seat...
Big questions about life, memory and covering the toilet seat...
Patricia CruzFebruary 20, 2020
tips for Visiting someone you love in the hospital
tips for Visiting someone you love in the hospital
Patricia CruzJanuary 23, 2020
Thanksgiving, hibachi and lice. Good times!
Thanksgiving, hibachi and lice. Good times!
Patricia CruzNovember 26, 2019
Hospice
Hospice
Patricia CruzOctober 27, 2019
Running on. Why I run at 5:30 and love it.
Running on. Why I run at 5:30 and love it.
Patricia CruzSeptember 8, 2019
Milestones without your parents
Milestones without your parents
Patricia CruzJune 20, 2019
Does this outfit make me look like a mom? And other things my coworkers say.
Does this outfit make me look like a mom? And other things my coworkers say.
Patricia CruzMay 9, 2019
10 years of care-taking- How to stay "you" in the middle of it.
10 years of care-taking- How to stay "you" in the middle of it.
Patricia CruzMarch 7, 2019grieving, logistics, exercise
Moving Someone with Dementia/Sweet Potato Pie Breakfast
Moving Someone with Dementia/Sweet Potato Pie Breakfast
Grieving, LogisticsPatricia CruzFebruary 7, 2019Comment
Eat the frog! Or, helping someone manage their life
Eat the frog! Or, helping someone manage their life
Patricia CruzNovember 29, 2018
Faking it.
Faking it.
Patricia CruzOctober 24, 2018
Birthdays without parents
Birthdays without parents
Patricia CruzOctober 9, 2018
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This is so you know it’s not a pastel picture of me doing something related to Mother’s Day. It’s also so everyone knows my son cheated on this one. He said it’s what a dinosaur says but I think he just had a whole mess of &ld
Mother’s Day is in six days. After such a big loss like losing a parent, don’t wing it! You need a plan, just like I did. So I made one for us. Tryingforjoy.net and then click under “blog” to see the Mother’s Day Plan.
Sunrise at the @smokymountainnationalpark was so amazing. Yesterday marked 10 years since Dad passed. It feels like so much time has passed. I wrote about how different grief is now, how I sort of feel like an orphan even though I’m not a kid a
Thank you @cabincreekside for thinking of the kids with this Airbnb rental!! Amazing basement!
In this “cool down” pool (it is probably not really called this) is my buddy and his swim bestie. They had just swam their first 100 back stroke. He was so so scared to do 3 flip turns, to swim that far in a race, and to be a beginner on
When in Manayunk, come play some old school video games and eat some homemade ice cream! @tubbyrobot #summerfridays #vanillaplease
These carrots were purchased by my husband on a camping trip when he told me the store had “lots of veggies”. We didn’t eat them. So then we gave them a car ride back from @shenandoahnps (amazing, go there if you haven’t and s
I’ve been writing again. No, not about rainbows. About eulogies and grief. Because nothing says summer like eulogies! Please read (Writing the Best Eulogy Ever- A Step By Step Guide- link in bio) and send to your friends/family that might be st
My son brought this home last night. His art teacher had the K students create a paper version of an “ugly doll”. Then the 6th graders turned those paper creations into real life “stuffies”. He was overwhelmed at how they got
For those of you grieving this winter and remembering family, I wrote about a year without Mom. ..."But it’s really hard for me to remember Mom as her full self. Do I erase the years of watching her slowly die to get to the deeper memories
 

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